The backlash facing the Member of Parliament for Ahafo Ano South East, Yakubu Mohammed, after he reportedly told a student visiting Parliament, “You are very beautiful; when you grow up, I will marry you,” should serve as an important lesson for Ghanaians, particularly at a time when child protection and inappropriate conduct toward minors remain major concerns.
Adults must be extremely careful about the words they use when speaking to children. Ghanaians must understand that the era in which adults casually or jokingly referred to children as “my husband” or “my wife” should be brought to an end.
Growing public awareness about child safeguarding has made it clear that such comments can be inappropriate, uncomfortable and easily misunderstood. Even when no harmful intention is involved, adults have a responsibility to maintain appropriate boundaries when communicating with children.
Sections of the media and social media users who drew attention to the MP’s remarks must be commended for highlighting why such language should not be encouraged. The criticism is particularly significant because the comment reportedly came from a lawmaker who is expected to demonstrate good judgment and set a positive example.
Although the MP has reportedly apologised, his political party and the leadership of Parliament should take the matter seriously. He could also consider apologising on the floor of the august House to demonstrate genuine remorse and assure the public that he will be more mindful of his words in the future.
In this era of increased public awareness and civic education, Members of Parliament must recognise that Ghanaians are paying close attention to their conduct. Citizens will not hesitate to speak out when they believe public officials have crossed acceptable boundaries in the discharge of their duties.
Receiving the students and educating them about the role of the legislature was commendable. However, the reported marriage comment was inappropriate and should not be repeated.
Public officials must remember that their words carry considerable influence. They are therefore expected to communicate responsibly, especially when interacting with children.
By Stella Annan
